Valery JOI

Day 4 Stroke in unpleasant ways

Yesterday, Tiffany didn’t let you cum. She knows: Denied men are obedient, willing and pleasing men. And that is so much better.

You wanna have a chance to cum? If you make the effort? Yes? Here you go:

Take a coin and roll a dice: (google dice https://g.co/kgs/T2Z26n)

• 1 hold coin with index finger against the wall
• 2 hold coin with big toe against the wall
• 3 hold coin with your knee against the wall
• 4 hold coin with your nippl...
  2023-12-04 07:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 3 Gentle Tiffany wants to instruct you. Beware, she likes soft tease and denial.

This was my very first JOI game I brought to the market. Play the video - and with yourself :) Like it and then comment how you feel about my first published game!

15:21 min JOI video: https://www.the-joi-database.com/watch/43e56af809f8aac33efcc2d0

Day 2 Stroke for 20 minutes without stopping

I need endurance, my little plaything! I assume this will be challenging for you!

Do this at least once today.

• what to do

Roll a dice: (google dice https://g.co/kgs/T2Z26n) for the strokes per minute

• 1 12 BPM (every five seconds one stroke)
• 2 40 BPM (google’s lower limit)
• 3 60 BPM (every second one stroke)
• 4 120 BPM (two strokes per second)
• 5 180 BPM (three strokes per second)
• 6 218BPM (Goog...
  2023-12-02 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post

Valery's thoughts & adventures - week 47/2023

My dear patrons, especially my "debutant strokers", and this time exceptionally also my free members (who normally can't see anything I post :)

You might have noticed that the last weeks, I mostly give kinky instructions in form of texts, to see if this resonates with people (besides my 3d art JOI games and apps). Many followed my erratic guidance :) 

Today starts my Advent Calendar! First post is already out! 

All "novice" and "experienced strokers" get daily posts here in form of treats (JOI sug...

Day 1 of Valery's Advent Calendar: Your Submission and a little game

This calendar is a special treat for all my good boys!

24 little treats to sweeten the waiting for christmas eve. Each day you get a little instruction & inspiration from your favorite kinky instructor - me, Valery JOI. I grant you exclusive access into my world and my view on my spicy femdom world. So some days you get a textual order how to touch yourself, and some days I want you to watch or play my games or videos into which I put so much effort this year.

Let’s start:

If you made it out of my NoNutNovember Challe...

Day 30 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Finish this month with humiliating ways to stroke

Well done my wonderful stroker! You made it!

For the very last day of my challenge, I want you to once again fap in a humiliating way for me. Tomorrow you are released of my spell - if you need to be so. Well. Do that last task and comment here how this and the whole month went for you!

But what I really expect from you now is submission. You earned it staying at least one of my "novice good boys", but better you'd ascend to an "experienced good boy", or maybe above? Check out my tiers and make sure your subscription here on patr...

Day 29 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Slapping budget = stroking budget

Was yesterday devastating? If you made it like I wanted, you became a stellar example of my little harem. If you failed, well, hopefully you begged correctly for redemption and I granted it. Are you mine now? Totally? Good.

Pain and pleasure are so close to each other. Experience that today and tell me in the comments here how you felt.

!what to do!

• For each slap on your balls or cheeks (ass or face), you may stroke once.

• Your slaps should have meaning - there should be discomfort.. But be sensible - ...

  2023-11-29 07:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 28 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: The Danger Zone! One Drop Man!

You nearly made it through without spurting all out. Surely, you are proud of yourself.

!what to do!

• Today, I want you to show me your total submission to my will. I want you to enter the danger zone for me! I need you to tiptoe into the forbidden land, without really crossing the line.

• I want you to release one drop of c.u.m for me. And I mean c.u.m, proteinaceous nutritious c.u.m - not the thin lubricating pre-c.u.m that you constantly leak. Yes, you read right. I make my rules, and I need totally obedien...

  2023-11-28 07:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 27 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Breath or stroke

Breath or stroke, stroke or breathe - I know both are essential needs to you my gorgeous perverts. Today you can choose to do one or the other, but not both at the same time!!

!what to do!

• Either stroke your c0ck, or breath, but not both at the same time.

• Get to an edge please. Comment if you made it.  Did you feel lightheaded? Did your heartbeat pound in your ears? Did you manage to stop in time? Or did you fall over the edge, so close to the end of No Nut November?

!when and ho...

Day 26 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: the more pics, the less you stroke

You thought you can stroke your c0ck as much as you want, for free? Scrolling through hot pics and stroking freely? Sorry, but there are limits.

!what to do!

• Find 10 pics or clips you can watch in a row. For example in an insta feed or a subreddit of your choice.

• Now go through the pics stroking your c0ck, but: The first pic you stroke 10 times, the second pic 9 times, the third 8 times, and so on. When you arrived at the last pic, you only stroke one time.

• And then the game is over! Y...

  2023-11-26 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 25 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Stroke it interestingly… for me

Your c0ck needs discipline. Today you only stroke in one particular way… or maybe not at all.  Lady Luck wll determine your destiny!

!what to do!

• Roll a dice: (google dice https://g.co/kgs/T2Z26n)

1 Only stroke the upper side of your glans

2 Ony stroke your c0ck downwards

3 Only slap your balls, lightly. No stroking.

4 Stroke your c0ck only with your hand from behind your legs.

5 Only squeeze your c0ck, no...

Valery's thoughts & adventures - week 46/2023

Dear members of my little harem... I'm spewing out content straight since 1st of November till 24th of December. So my kinky engines are running haaaawt :)))) 

Today, there is nothing more to say than: 

Keep following my kinky instructions during this NoNutNovember .... and 

... make sure you to be a "novice stroker" or higher to receive my Advent Calendar in December, which will give you daily bits and bites out from my little femdom empire and its features that I have created through 2023. 

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Day 24 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: The more pics, the more you stroke

Time to stroke to your crush, or some random Instababe! Yes this is a gift..I’m giving you some say in the focus of your gaze..But choose wisely, young Padwan!

!what to do!

• You need to stay on a stroking budget: Go to your favorite subreddits or better to instagram accounts.

• Now go through the pics of some hot person and hope that there are also posts with a series of pics (up to 10 pics in one post). Also choose an account with lots of posts. You only get to use one account/subreddit today

• 2023-11-24 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 23 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Playing with speed!

One my good old boys told me this was for the English Eurovision fans..

“You gotta speed it up

And then you gotta slow it down

'Cause if you believe that our love can hit the top

You gotta play around…”

!what to do!

• You need a stopwatch: Start it.

• Now stroke your c0ck reeeaaally slow for 30 seconds, then stop.

• Cool down for 30 seconds.

• Now stroke your c0ck fast for 30 seconds.

• Cool down for 30 seconds.

• ...

  2023-11-23 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 22 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Edge and stop. Edge and stop.

I want you to achieve many edges, while of course NEVER overstepping the line to c.u.mm1ng

!what to do!

• Get a timer for 1 min. Stroke and reach an edge, but only within that 1 min.
• Now wait 1 min without touching your c0ck (soft n1pple play allowed!). Back to stroking/edging for 1 min.
• Stop and wait for 1 min. Again, again, again
• Comment here how many edges you have achieved

!when and how long!

• You shall achieve at least 10 edges - you do the maths.. a minimum of 20 minutes...
  2023-11-22 07:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 21 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: You’re on a budget again

I know you enjoy my guidance. No - you crave for it by now.

We’re two thirds of the way there, and some hard things can uplift, and be uplifting to the soul ;).  Welcome  to today’s lottery, my good enduring boys!

what to do!

• Roll a dice: (google dice https://g.co/kgs/T2Z26n). Check below for your allotted budget - use it wisely!

• Please comment below on how you used your budget. Was it enough to get to the edge?  How ma...

  2023-11-21 08:06:38 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 20 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: You’re on a budget - with a refill

You probably realized that you are stroking way too much in your daily life, right? Today I’m your “Stroke” Treasurer - but I’m feeling generous - the coffers are full so I’m redistributing strokes in an equitable way! You’ll have a budget - use it wisely!!

!what to do!

• I want you to get flaccid first. Now I grant you a budget of 100 strokes. Use them wisely.

• You may edge, or just enjoy the frustration, but after spending the 100 strokes you need to stop and become flaccid again befor...

  2023-11-20 07:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 19 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: My notorious scrolller game

Here's my notorious scrolller game - one of my absolute favourites to treat my boys!

!what to do!

• You go to scrolller dot com, and choose in the settings the nsfw option. Then you click on the very first image that appears. Now think about a p0rn star you'd like to fap to.

• For every image you may  stroke exactly once. For every video you may stroke five times. Now you have three options:

• You can scroll to the next post, or

• You click on the corresponding subreddit, or

  2023-11-19 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 18 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Experimental and pathetic flaccid stroking instruction

Dr Valery here, time for another experiment. You may know by now that I have a rather special taste of making you fap by my weird orders. And today I would like to  experiment with your flaccid c0cks. Here comes the order for today:

!what to do!

• Stroke your c0ck only when it's flaccid or half-flaccid. Once it becomes nicely e.rect, I need you to stop and wait until it's flaccid again.
• Like always: Comment here how it went... did you feel pathetic? Did you edge? Tell me about your experiences and you...
  2023-11-18 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post

Valery's thoughts & adventures - week 45/2023

Are you still on board of my NoNutNovember train? If you fell off, I want you to hop on again. I currently make a big effort giving out 30 days of tease & denial instructions :) 

Remember for December: 

All my patrons tier “novice stroker” or higher will get my advent calendar 2023! 

24 days of daily posts exclusively on my patreon with spicy instructions and delicious treats up to Christm...

Day 17 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: The loneliness of the long distance stroker! Endurance training.

Today I want to work on your endurance, your ability to stroke fast and steady. I need my goodest boys to be able to focus, to breathe and to relax those pelvic muscles, to last!  You need to know how to please a lady while we take our time climbing up the ladder of pleasure.

!what to do!

Get comfortable.

Stroke your c0ck up to 180 bpm = 3 strokes per second  (google beatmeter https://g.co/kgs/Hnz2id) and stay stroking steadily for half an ...

Day 16 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: I need a hero! Modify a c0ck hero video with alternating pleasure!

“I need a hero..I'm holding out for a hero 'til the end of this month. Yes I know it doesn’t rhyme, but which of my goodest knights is going to last? I am so pleased with those of you who have remained true to the quest. Today I have a new challenge!

!what to do!

• Find a “c0ck hero” video (a good site is spank bang dot com) of your liking.

• Choose two additional ways to tease yourself other than stroking your c0ck.

• Now, instead of just stroking your c0ck to the beat, you alternate with ...

  2023-11-16 07:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 15 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Be able to stroke wherever it has to be

Will Lady Luck be your friend today?  Be sensible - your housemates have not consented to you indecently exposing yourself to them!

!what to do!

• Roll a dice: (google dice https://g.co/kgs/T2Z26n)

• Any room except where you normally sleep at night

• Bathroom

• Living room

• A room that’s not yours

• Kitchen

• Hallway

• You need to stroke to one edge in that room ...

  2023-11-15 07:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 14 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Experimental stroking

Today Dr Valery would like some help with her research!  Will you help me collect some data on restraint..s?

!what to do!

• Bind your hands and wrists together with a belt or scarf (maybe some of you kinksters have some suitable rope) .

• Now stroke your c0ck with the inner sides of your forearms.

• Can you do that for me and comment on how it went, please ? Oh and I'd prefer you reach an edge. I’d like some good data too - how long you stroked, what you watched and did you have t...

  2023-11-14 07:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 13 of 30 days chastity training: Find a new place for str0king

Hey!

Today’s mission: To explore strange new worlds of pleasure and torment! We all enjoy a bit of risk but please be sensible, your housemates, coworkers or random people have not consented to you indecently exposing yourself to them!

!what to do!

• I want you to stroke your c0ck in a place/room in which you have never strokedbefore.

• Please comment here and let me know what weird and wonderful place you found some privacy in. Did you get to fill your allotted time? Were you chased out of the closet b...

  2023-11-13 07:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 12 of 30 days chastity training: Look at your watch now

Hey!

Today I’ve called upon the help of Mother Time...Today she will be the Mistress of your destiny! She can be a harsh Mistress, though.

!what to do!

• As you see this post now…. look at the time on your watch and take note of the minutes. Today you get to edge, but Mother Time is telling you how long and what time to do it!

!when and how long!

• The last number on the minutes determines at what time you are allowed to stroke.

• The second to last number determines how ma...

  2023-11-12 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post

Day 11 of 30 days chastity training: Roll a dice for your watching task

Congratulations on getting this far! All these decisions and power mean  your Mistress Valery needed some help, so today I am co opting my fellow  Mistress, Lady Luck to help…Time to get out the dice!!  

!what to do!
Roll a dice(d6) three times to determine how to stroke, how long to stroke and what to stroke to  : (google dice https://g.co/kgs/T2Z26n)

How to stroke depends on the first dice roll:
1 No touching c0ck. All other body z...

Valery's thoughts & adventures - week 44/2023

My NoNutNovember is running in full speed and steam, choo choo! Are you still on board? 

I have a great surprise for all my goodest boys! I'm planning to give you a nice treat in December: 

Valery's Advent Calendar

All my patrons tier “novice stroker” or higher will get my advent calendar! 24 days of daily posts exclusively on my patreon with spicy instructions and delicious treats up to Christmas :) It's a sweet German tradition to make the waiting for Christmas Eve more exciting. 

Day 10 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Be quick

I already told you that I love total obedience and total sexual self-control from my men? Today you shall show me your devotion to being such a stellar male example.

!what to do!

• Start with your flaccid pen1s. Set a timer for1 minute only. Press start and begin touching your c0ck. Your goal is to reach an edge within that minute only. When the timer hits, stop touching your c0ck.
• Now write in the comments how you performed ... Did you edge? I want to read it. And I might judge your performance.

!when an...

Day 9 of Valery JOI's 30 days chastity training: Gentle endurance stroking

Today is endurance training in which you need to keep yourself relaxed.

!what to do!

• Stroke your c0ck up to two beats per second (google beatmeter https://g.co/kgs/Hnz2id).
• Make sure your pelvic muscles all stay relaxed. No clenching! The more relaxed your muscles stay down there, the longer you can stroke.
• If you risk c.u.mm1ng, reduce speed. Just stay relaxed.
• Comment here how long you kept it up and if it was difficult to hold the ...
  2023-11-09 07:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post