Happy new years to you all!
Also … hope to see you guys on our first Thursday call tomorrow (or likely tonight, by the time you read this!).
8pm ET on Jan 1, 2026
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2026-01-01 04:44:06 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey guys! As I shared in the video, here's the email that went out to my mailing list today (and if you're not on my mailing list, please feel free to sign up on EcstaticSelf.com):
Dear all,
As this year comes to a close, I’ve been reflecting on how much has unfolded — both outwardly and inwardly.
In 2025, we hosted two sold-out retreats, completed a Staff Pick Kickstarter that raised over 200% of its goal, published 48 Gateways to the Ecstatic Se...
2025-12-30 03:44:52 +0000 UTC View Post
I just shared a video publicly that felt important to speak out loud. It’s about embodiment, sexuality, spirituality, trauma, privilege, and the complicated reality of being seen — especially in a visual culture. In the next day or two, I’ll be recording a Patreon-only follow-up where I speak more personally about what’s still unresolved for me, what this has stirred internally, and how I’m actually working with it in my own life.
For now, here’s the public video. Thank you for being part of my inner circle where this kind ...
2025-12-28 04:06:56 +0000 UTC View Post
It was great having this session with y'all last night! Here's the recording for those who couldn't make it!
Blessings, All!!
2025-12-20 01:46:36 +0000 UTC View Post
Throughout history, the penis has been used as a gateway to higher states of consciousness. In our Patron Zoom call, we will discuss how we connect with it and specific practices for unlocking the magic of this magnificent organ.
See you there! 8pm ET
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/85764774046?pwd=MYLwaLBcNR2LLsOsgXV4Gs1qLrhDgX.1
2025-12-16 16:54:11 +0000 UTC View PostHere are some of my favorite breathing practices (excerpted from my upcoming book!). I hope you find usefulness and joy in them!
Breath as a Gateway
The breath serves an extraordinary function in the human body. Every moment of every day, we are respirating. One can live for weeks without food, days without water, but only moments without air. For as long as you inhabit this body, you will breathe.
Yet as automatic as the breath is, it is also one of the few systems that can be consciously directed. Therein...
2025-12-14 01:35:42 +0000 UTC View Post
Thank you for everyone who attended this week! It was wonderful sharing sacred time with you all!
Blessings, and love!! Kaelan
2025-12-08 02:01:51 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey guys! So sorry for the delay! Here’s your NSFW link for December.
Blessings!
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2025-12-06 19:50:26 +0000 UTC View PostHey guys!
Tomorrow we are meeting at 8pm ET on Zoom. The topic is: Keeping our hearts open yet protected.
I hope to see you there!
https://us06web.zoom.us/j/84128140347?pwd=iISfAqKaRwFbJj1RIUcXA55oECFZOC.1
2025-12-03 21:17:04 +0000 UTC View PostHey, Ectaticists!
We are happy to be home from our adventures in Asia... and I have the full scoop to share with you!
We had a blast... and can't wait to tell you all about it!
Big hugs, Kaelan
2025-12-02 23:31:36 +0000 UTC View Post
Another practice from my upcoming book. I hope you enjoy!
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Located deep within the belly at the level of the navel is an energy center tied to identity and will. From this place, our inner reality projects outward and the world adjusts to reflect it. Want to change the course of your life? Bend circumstances in your favor? Manifest outcomes that once felt impossible? Focus here.
It was through this space that we were fed by our mothers while still in the womb. It was our original connection point from our inner ...
2025-11-28 20:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
In this practice, we dive into the sacral center in our hips. Let me know how you enjoy!!
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In a culture that relegates sexual energy as something that is profane, dangerous, or tAs modern culture too often relegates sexual energy to something profane, deviant, dangerous, or taboo — to embrace the current of power that runs through our hips is a quiet act of rebellion. Here, located deep in the pelvis, is a wellspring of creativity, life force, and erotic charge. Often misunderstood and almost entirely ...
2025-11-26 19:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey my fellow Ecstaticists!
I hope everyone’s having a wonderful end of November!
We are having a fabulous time in Asia. I’ve got lots of stories to share, and have had some truly epic experiences. I can’t wait to update you on our adventures.
In the meantime, here’s some snapshots from our voyage. More to come soon!
Hugs and love!
Kaelan ❤️
2025-11-25 07:42:47 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey guys! More practices from my upcoming book. I hope you enjoy!!!
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Mystics of varying traditions will praise different parts of the subtle anatomy as the pinnacle of consciousness. Focus on the third eye, some say, for it grants psychic insight. Others insist awareness should rise to the crown and dissolve into cosmic unity. Some point toward the navel — the seat of personal power and miraculous capacity. Others champion the underworld gates and the primal forces found there.
None of them a...
2025-11-23 19:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's another practice from the upcoming book: Ecstaticism!
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Once you are comfortable accessing both the lower and upper portals of the energetic body, it is time to recognize the connection between them. These two gates are not separate destinations — they are the poles of a single pathway: the central channel through which consciousness flows.
Sit with a tall, easy spine. Breathe gently. On an inhale, feel your awareness sink down into the earth beneath your hips. Notice the dark, fertile ground — the comfo...
2025-11-18 19:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey guys! Sharing more of my upcoming book with you. Here's how to use the top of your head as a portal to higher levels. Enjoy!
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At the opposite end of the psychic body lies the portal to the heavenly realms, located just above the crown of the head. This apex mirrors the Root Gate: where the lower realms open downward into the depths of Earth, this gateway opens upward into spacious, radiant dimensions of spirit.
If the primal realms are steady, rooted, and ancient, these upper realms a...
2025-11-15 19:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Nestled into the base of the neck is a portal to the ephemeral, the drifting, and the hazy… namely the world of visions and dreams. While the third eye is associated with more refined and so-called “higher” spiritual insights, the throat center is responsible for embodied knowing, dream-travel, and psychic impressions. If the heart is the hub of the human experience — the place we call home, the nexus of high and low vibrations — then the throat center is the transition point from the human to the ethereal.
Cultures across ti...
2025-11-12 20:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post
It was such a joy connecting and sharing with you all. Here's the recording from our session!
Hope to see you at our next meet up on December 4th?
2025-11-12 03:00:07 +0000 UTC View PostLooking forward to our group session tonight. Hope to see you there!
Kaelan is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Topic: Sacred Meditation Class
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Hey y'all!
Here's a video I plan to post this week. As always, you get to see it first. I hope you enjoy :)
2025-11-05 07:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostHey everyone!
So excited to gather again this Thursday. Please join us at 8pm ET :)
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2025-11-05 03:33:52 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey guys!
I had a great time meeting with you all this week. Thank you to all who joined. Here's the recording of the class on Love and Bliss!
Blessings!!
2025-11-03 00:53:20 +0000 UTC View PostHey y'all!
I hope you are having a beautiful autumn. Here's your NSFW link for the month!
Big hugs and lots of love!
Kaelan
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Hey y'all!
Over this last year or so, we have really enjoyed seeing the benefits in how gongs and sound baths can really help people heal and harmonize.
So, we've decided to invest in a TRULY transformative tool that will be amazing for the ceremonies and workshops we do together!
Please join us in welcoming this sonic portal to our temple space! We cannot wait to share it with you!!
Hope to see you there!
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... 2025-10-30 20:32:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey guys... here's what I am working on today in my upcoming book, Ecstaticism. I thought you'd enjoy!
The Root Gate — Descent into the Primal Realms
Certain areas of the energetic body are described as portals to other realms of consciousness. The bottom of the pelvis is one such gateway. Located in the center of the perineum—between the anus and the genitals—this vortex opens into a realm of primordial, earthy, potent energies.
This is the entrance to the lower realms—not lower as in lesser or hel...
2025-10-29 17:26:48 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey Ecstaticists!
Next month, I will be traveling with my husband and have limited internet access.
Since I won't be able to make the 3rd Thursday call, let's do one this week.
I hope to see you there! 8pm ET
The topic will be: Love and Bliss as the Force of the Divine
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2025-10-27 03:21:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey y'all. Well, what a week it's been. Tonight, I share my unfiltered feelings about what I learned on the retreat.
At the end, join me for a few deep breaths of psychic connection and blessings!
Love to you all!
2025-10-25 02:42:10 +0000 UTC View Post
